The Meaning of Prayer
Stuart Allen
It is not possible to over
emphasize the importance of prayer, if we accept what the Word of God
teaches on this subject. We state a true fact when we say that all the
great men of God in the Scriptures and since have been men of prayer. A
prayerless life is an unfruitful life. Yet all believers at times have
felt the poverty of their prayer life. This was true even of the
Apostles, for, realising their inadequacy, they asked the Lord Jesus to
teach them to pray (Luke 11:1), and we remember that the Son of God
frequently withdrew to a quiet place to commune with the Father. If He
felt the need of prayer, what about ourselves?
The Apostle Paul
stated, "we know not what we should pray for as we ought" (Rom.8:26),
yet from the Scriptures it is evident that his life was soaked in
prayer. Can it be that our poor prayers ever give God delight? The
answer is "Yes". The Psalmist connects his praying with the symbolism of
incense, which in the Old Testament was specially fragrant. "Then the
Lord said to Moses, `Take fragrant spices ... and make a fragrant blend
of incense, the work of the perfumer'" (Exod.30:34,35 N.I.V.), and this
fragrance covered the work of Aaron, the high priest, in the Tabernacle.
The words of the Psalmist were "Let my prayer be directed (see margin)
before Thee as incense" (Psa.141:2). We find the same association in
Revelation 8:3,4, "another angel came and stood at the altar ... and
there was given unto him much incense, that he should offer it with the
prayers of all saints upon the golden altar". The incense was a symbol
of the fragrance of Christ, and if our prayers are covered with His
fragrance, they are a delight to the Lord. God loves to hear His people
pray and He is far more ready to listen than we are to pray to Him.
However, some may say, "I never seem to get any answers to my prayers".
This is wrong, because all prayer is answered when we realise that when
God says "no", it is just as much an answer as when He says "yes". Too
often we only pray when we are experiencing some great problem or
danger, or when we badly want something. We can be sure of one thing,
that our heavenly Father loves us too much to give us any thing that
will be to our lasting hurt. The baby sees the light glistening on a
sharp razor blade and wants to handle it, but who would be so unkind as
to give it to the infant?
If we want the answer "yes" to our prayers we must take heed to the
guidance of Holy Scripture. The Apostle John gives us the key when he
writes, "And this is the confidence that we have in Him (Christ), that,
if we ask anything according to His will, He heareth us" (1 John 5:14).
Prayer is not the means of trying to force God to give us something that
we want. Some seem to think that if they worry the Lord by constantly
praying for something, they will finally get it. But He is too wise and
too kind to give us anything that is contrary to His will. The children
of Israel in the Old Testament became tired of the heavenly food (the
manna) that God gave them every day. They longed for flesh food, and
they kept demanding it from their leader, Moses. The Psalmist tells us
what the result was, "In the desert they gave in to their cravings; in
the wasteland they put God to the test. So He gave them what they asked
for, but sent a wasting disease upon them" (Psa.106:14,15 N.I.V.). This
was a terrible answer to their continued prayer and they had to learn
the hard way as we sometimes have to do, if we constantly press God to
give us things just because we want them very much. If we subject all
our praying to His will, we cannot go wrong.
We shall be greatly helped in our prayer life if we continually make
thanksgiving for all the Lord's goodness and love that we experience day
by day. Surely we shall not have to think very long before we remember
how indebted we are to Him. Prayer is not only asking for certain
things, it is praise and thanksgiving, and if we constantly maintain a
thankful spirit, we shall not go far wrong. Forgetfulness so often leads
to spiritual declension.
Perhaps the highest form of prayer is intercession for others. Here self
is left out and we are remembering someone else's needs. If we carefully
study Paul's prayer life, we shall be impressed by how frequently he was
bearing up others in prayer. At the same time he greatly valued prayer
for himself and the great responsibility he had with the tremendous
truth that Christ had entrusted him with, which he was faithfully
passing on to others. He wrote "I know that through your prayers and the
help given by the Spirit of Jesus Christ, what has happened to me (he
was a prisoner at Rome) will turn out for my deliverance" (Phil.1:19
N.I.V.). And to Philemon he wrote,
"Prepare a guest room for me, because I hope to be restored to you
in answer to your prayers" (Philemon 22).
Can we say that prayer for others is realised? The answer is "yes" if it
is all subject to the Lord's will. There is much more that we could say
on this supremely important subject of prayer, but it is not possible in
this leaflet. We cannot finish without stressing the need of prayer for
the revelation of the Holy Spirit to give understanding of the Word of
God. This does not come through cleverness or special education. The
writing of the Word itself was the result of the Holy Spirit inspiring
faithful men to write it (2 Pet.1:19-21), and He alone can explain it.
The Lord Jesus, referring to the future work of the Holy Spirit
declared, "He will guide you into all truth", and "He shall glorify Me"
(John 16:13,14).
The Apostle Paul
in 1 Corinthians 2, declared that the things God had prepared for His
redeemed are not known by any human being, but "God hath revealed them
unto us by His Spirit" (1 Cor.2:9-11), and further on "the things of the
Spirit ... are spiritually discerned" (1 Cor.2:13,14). The work of the
Holy Spirit is absolutely necessary for the revelation and understanding
of truth, and that is why in Ephesians 1, the Apostle states that the
Father had given the Ephesian believers "the spirit of wisdom and
revelation in the knowledge of Him" which led to the "enlightening of
the eyes of their understanding". This certainly refers to the work of
the Holy Spirit (see the N.I.V. here). He is the great revealer of
truth, and it is to Him that we must look if we want a real knowledge of
the Scriptures with all their wealth of revelation concerning God's
great redemptive purpose, which will involve a new heaven and earth in
which Christ will be supreme.
One is sometimes asked how often should one pray, and the answer is in 1
Thessalonians 5:17, "Pray without ceasing". The Apostle Paul declared
again and again that he never ceased praying, specially for others
(Rom.1:9; 1 Thess.1:3; 5:17; Eph.1:16; Col.1:19; and 2 Tim.1:3). So we
should constantly pray and give thanks (Eph.5:20), and "Continue in
prayer, and watch in the same with thanksgiving" (Col.4:2).
If we want to
discover the spiritual treasures that are found in God's Word, we must
look to the Holy Spirit, the Revealer of truth, to do for us what was
expressed by the Psalmist when he asked for his eyes to be opened in
order that he might know "the wondrous things in God's law", which of
course means His Word (Psa.119:18).
"Pray without ceasing" (1 Thess. 5:17).